learn by example

I liked the meeting Aesclepius.  I found it hard to picture someone in my life right now that is my mentor.  I am not sure if this is because I am so bust with work, and school, and kids that I don’t have time to get out much or what, so I made a person up and it made me feel warm inside to have someone that I could connect with.  I did think of a really good friend that I talk to every day that I am glad I have and can call and tell all my problems and complaints to and he always has words of encouragement and tells me not to give up, that I can do this.  He always says how proud of me he is, which always makes me feel good.  I believe it is good to reflect on people that are inspiring and what you have.  It is a good idea to have someone you can vent to that won’t hold anything against you, it is good to talk things out especially with someone positive, this is part of my daily ritual. 

I do believe one cannot lead another where one has not gone himself because if he has no idea how or what to do then how can he tell someone how to do it.  I always say experience gets you everything, you may not have right credentials but if you can tell someone your own experience it is more believable to them and they are more likely to try it.  I can implement daily growth in psychological and spiritual by meditating, running, listening to music, and just listening to quiet.  The quiet always amazes  me, its amazing what one can do with a clear mind!  A person can tell if you are mentally and physically fit, they are more likely to do it if they see by example that it works.